Friday, January 24, 2014

Seventy

It has been a month; I have waited for it all to sink in before writing. So, now I am both retired and have turned 70. This past December 24th was not only the eve of Christmas, but it was my 70th birthday. No fireworks, no confetti, just a quiet celebratory dinner with Terry and Brian at a great Italian restaurant. (I would get a chance to celebrate again with Michael and Jessica in New York in early January - they were out west for Christmas.)

And the results...

  • Being retired
    • Rarely have to set the alarm clock
    • Actual have time to read the paper in the morning and not wait until 5:00 pm
    • Lots of "together" time
    • Needing to find a groove
    • Happy not to have to wait to hear about snow days/delayed openings
    • Time to catch up on more reading
    • Setting time to volunteer
    • Getting back to my genealogy research
    • No reason to ever again say "TGIF"
    • Every day feels like Saturday
    • Planning a new adventure
  • Being 70
    • Taking stock of what is truly important
    • Feeling the need to purge the extraneous
    • Becoming more aware of mortality
    • Less time to put off things
    • Wanting to reconnect with those with whom I have lost touch
    • Cherishing family and friends
    • Looking forward to new experiences
One of the things I am confronting is the probable need for a hip replacement. I see the surgeon on Wednesday, January 29th and I must admit that I am more than a little anxious about the prospect of this surgery. Why? I have been told that I am considered high risk for a blood clot. My dad died of a pulmonary embolism post op; we have a family history of cancer; I once had a bout of ischemic colitis. All of that adds up to putting me in the category of high risk. Another thing I am acutely aware of from my genealogy research is that no one in my family had lived beyond the age of 72. Now, I plan to be the one to be the first to surpass that milestone. So, I am going to go into this with a positive attitude and prepare for a good outcome - not to mention, to enjoy the ability to regain pain-free movement. 

Periodically I will review today's thoughts and see where I stand. I now take a new step on this journey.